February 13 | Ephesians 5:25-27, 33

 “Husbands, love your wives just as Christ also loved the Church, and gave Himself for her, that He might sanctify her, having cleansed her in the washing of water by the Word, so that He might present her to Himself, the glorious Church, not having a spot or wrinkle or anything, but so that she is holy and blameless.” (Ephesians 5:25–27)

“Only let each and every one of you love His own wife; in the same way as He loves himself, and let the wife respect her husband.” (Ephesians 5:33)

There are more divorces in America than thriving marriages. In the Church, it’s not much better. They break up because of finances and communication. One deep issue I see is that they don’t love each other.

Sounds harsh, right? But think about it. If unconditional love was the foundation of every marriage, a husband and wife could resolve every problem. If Jesus is the center of the marriage, there is always a solution.

Deep unconditional love, not emotional love, must be your foundation. Husbands love like Jesus, ready to die for their wife. Wives must love their husbands through respect even when their husbands are growing.

Jesus loved us when we were His enemies. With unconditional love, they will stand against every storm. Adversity strengthens the marriage like weightlifting strengthens muscles.

Action Step: Find a way to show your spouse your unconditional love for them today. The Five Love Languages is a great resource for discovering your mate’s love language, how they feel love from you. It may not be yours. Today’s about them, not you.

Lord Jesus, help me find ways to show my spouse I love them deeply. No matter what we face as a couple, be our center and keep us a couple through the storm. Bless my spouse today with Your love and favor.

Lord Jesus, help me to find ways to show my spouse I love them deeply. No matter what we face as a couple, be the center of our marriage and keep us a couple through the storm. Bless my spouse today with your love and favor.