November 15 | Genesis 2:23-24
“Then the man said, “This now is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh. This one will be called Woman because from man this one was taken.” Therefore, a man shall leave His father and mother and hold fast to His wife, and they shall become one flesh.” (Genesis 2:23–24)
Adam had been searching for companionship. He found none among the animals. Even though he spent a while naming each one they were incompatible. So when he wakes up from His deep sleep He exclaims, “At last! Someone compatible for me.”
His wife was not just compatible. She and he were a perfect fit. Through marriage, intimate union of husband and wife is the perfect fit. It may not always seem that way, and some people don’t fit together as they should. But God designed marriage to make two people one.
Husband and wife begin a relationship unlike any in their past. The man leaves his family to begin a new one with his wife. They are bound together with a bond not designed to be broken by anything but death.
With all the talk of prenups, divorce, and separation, we forget God’s original intent for marriage. We make marriage in our image rather than in His. Marriage is meant to be enjoyable, fruitful, and a blessing. It should not be broken up or a temporary get-together.
Action Step: Ignore the way culture represents marriage. Recommit yourself every morning to your spouse. Don’t let divorce on the table.
Jesus, give me the ability to love my spouse with actions and emotions. Help me to resolve arguments and issues that arise. I want to grow deeper and deeper in our bond together. Bless my spouse and help me to put them before myself.